How to Get Pregnant- Youtube Videos

by Sanjeev on January 18, 2011 · 175 comments

Rati and I are going to complete our second year of marriage. We both had planned to have kids after 3- 4 years and I can feel that slowly we both are getting ready for it. Every time my brother comes home with his family and we play with my two years old niece, both of us wistfully think of having a doll like her. But as I said, we are still taking time to be completely ready to plan a kid. And I think it would happen naturally, so all is well.

It is only after coming to IMBB that I realized that being pregnant and having kids was something we had taken for granted and a lot of families want it but can’t have it! All these years, I thought it took effort NOT to have kids. After all, one mistake and BAM, you’re a daddy of one or two. It is now only that I realize that many families go through the pain of wanting babies and trying hard for it, but not getting one. And this thing has kind of scared me. What if we have the same problems when we decide to have kids? I really hope all goes well. Also, I sincerely pray for everyone here that they are blessed with parenthood.

Although Jomol has written an amazing article on ‘How to Get Pregnant,’ I found some wonderful youtube videos on the topic. Maybe it is the same gyaan on getting pregnant that Jomol has covered in the article, I would not be qualified to know. But I think women who are wishing for motherhood and want to get pregnant should definitely watch these. Who knows, some good things might happen. :)

1. How To Get Pregnant Fast & Naturally Are You Trying To Conceive?

2. How to get pregnant – Improve your chances of getting pregnant

3. Pregnancy Tips : How to Get Pregnant With PCOS

4. What Are The Best Positions To Get Pregnant

5. How to get Pregnant Faster Top Ten Tips

P.S.- I shall keep uploading more videos in this post as I discover them. The post might be useful to many.

Also Read:

How To Get Pregnant
How To Stay Fit and Look Good During Pregnancy
Pregnancy- Myths, Diet and Abortion
A-Z Guide to Pregnancy Weeks
5 best positions to get pregnant fast
Infertility- 14 Tips To Help You Get Pregnant
Trying To Get Pregnant? Still Trying to Conceive?
How to Get Pregnant

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ki January 18, 2011 at 2:58 pm

May God bless you both with beautiful babies :-* :-* :-*

a little doll who loves makeup like mama and a little prince who grows up and buys HIS wife lotsa makeup :P :toothygrin: :P

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:06 pm

Now I can say “same to you” :-*

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ki January 18, 2011 at 3:14 pm

I swear – can’t believe I got married :D

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:55 pm

I know but so awesome na.. I am happy for you. :-*

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 2:58 pm

Oh God!!! Another pregnancy post!!!! :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: LOL.. i really wonder … :whistle: :whistle: :whistle: :whistle: :whistle: :shy: :shy: :shy: :secret2: :secret2: :secret2: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: ?:) ?:) ?:) ?:) ?:)

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 2:59 pm

This is great Sanjeev.
My cousin sister had this problem of not conceiving as she had married late and some other complications. Nothing worked for them and finally they adopted a baby girl.
These days most of the complications are because career-oriented couples marry quite late. And planning babies in thirties decreases the chances of pregnancy.
Ab toh mein bhi darrne lagi hoon…..already 25 last month. So I guess its high time to get married and considering a gap of 2 years for first child….hmmmm God knows kya hoga! :shock:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:01 pm

phew! itna sochna padta hai????? i became 25 6 months ago!!!!!!! :wilt: :wilt: :wilt: :wilt: :wilt: :wilt: :wilt:

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:04 pm

Suma….really yaar
All my school mates got married last year
few are having 3 year old babies…..I am so scared now! :((
And my BF does not even give me the ‘shaadi commitment’ type hints….errrrrrrrrrr
Pata nahi kya hoga mera………….. :((

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:06 pm

:hugleft:

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:10 pm

:hughright:
Even Cali told her parents no!
Me so happy for her. I wish she gets married soon….mast in white gown….walking the aisle….wow!! :yahoo: :yahoo:
I wonder if I marry….will I hv Gujju or Punjabi type wedding! :whistle: :whistle: :whistle: :whistle:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:12 pm

:whistle: :whistle: :whistle: Jinal, u r a gujju or punjabi?
And Cali is getting married?????? WHEN???? How dont i know and everyone on IMBB knows??? :( :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep:

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:15 pm

Suma…I am gujju! and he is punjabi! :woot:
Not getting married. But I wish its soon. Just she took the stand now. Told her parents I guess. Thats what I read it here. :))

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:18 pm

wah wah… it’ll be an awesome mix of gujju and punjabi :) LOVE IT!
and am so happy for Cali :) YAY YAY YAY YAY YAY YAY

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:14 pm

I have never seen gujju marriage but Punjabi marriages are fun, that much I know. ;)

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:17 pm

Gujju marriage are during day. By afternoon 3 pm Bidaai is done. And at night reception.
I dont mind any of them…..bas ho jaye kaise bhi jaldi jaldi…..either this year or next. :fingersxd:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:21 pm

I also got married during the day in some mixture of rajput-punjabi wedding . But we had fun :yahoo: :yahoo:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:17 pm

I have seen both!!!! Both are fun :)
But Gujjus have a more of a folk/traditional touch to their weddings while Punjabis are all out to have fun and a great time :D They are both AWESOME!!!! :D

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:22 pm

yeah You right Suma.
I will combine both. Marriage ceremony would be traditional type and friends ke liye fun type post marriage party.
And I would invite IMMB gang….grand meet!
Plus all you girls to help me look my best. Now I am being little mean here :toothygrin: :toothygrin:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:26 pm

yay yay yay!!! it’ll be so much fun!!!!! :D

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:07 pm

uh oh… Ok now i am scared!!! as in tensed!!!! You know Jinal am not a very baby person :( so i guess i’ll take all the more time to have kids :( they say God waits till u ready and only then gifts you with one… :| :| :| :|
What if i am not ready on time????? :tremble: :tremble: :tremble: :tremble: :tremble: :tremble: :tremble: :tremble: :tremble:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:11 pm

when are you planning to get married suma? :)

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:14 pm

JUNE this year :)
Talks are on :)

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:18 pm

Band baaja baarat :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:19 pm

LOL… bas abhi shaadi kis way mein karna hai is the question… its too much of a HOTCH POTCH :P

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Bee January 18, 2011 at 8:03 pm

heyyy congrats Suma- dats grt news :D
u’ll be a very very pretty bride :)

and yeahhhh even m baby-phobic even though I love them :((
meri shadi ko just 6 mnths hue and all my relatives keep pestering me about kids….
donno what m I going to do :((

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anks January 19, 2011 at 10:50 am

Hey Suma…. awesome news…. congrats :)

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:13 pm

you right…..its only when you ready
But you know you will be fine….once you married….the feeling comes automatically…..and a woman feels incomplete without a baby no! :))
I am sure everything will be fine….. :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:15 pm

I am hoping I get the feeling :P I am so not a baby person (i repeated)…
But I guess am improving… :P

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:16 pm

I agree Jinal, that feeling slowly and steadily comes to you. It’s like the marriage thing only, you dont want to get married until a point but after 25-26 years of age you get prepared mentally. :)

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:19 pm

Yes. I am now so much prepared. But I guess men take more time. :((

And Suma. June sounds nice. This is correct age. Then you can take 2-3 years to overcome your baby fears. And am sure you’ll have cute, pretty babies. :toothygrin: The you’ll never regret about this statement. :victory2:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:20 pm

hahahahhahahahahah… My mom will be the happiest then :) She is really worried bout my baby-phobia!!!! LOL :D

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:22 pm

suma I am being nosey but you having love or arrange marriage. :D :D

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:23 pm

me too curious! :shy:

Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:25 pm

no no of course not Rati… U r not nosey at all :) It’s fun having so many friends thru IMBB :)
Am having a love marriage :)
inter-caste, inter-community, inter-background, inter-everything :P

Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:23 pm

And Jinal… yeah.. Guys do take more time :(
I had a tough time getting my guy ready… but fortunately, when we had started going around he told me that shaadi will have to wait for 5 years… and well 5 years just flew by :) 2011 is the 5th year of our relationship (touchwood)…

u dont worry, u will be surprised as to how ur guy will be suddenly dying to get married :)

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:27 pm

Ohh wow….5 years….awesome :yahoo: :yahoo:
Congrats!! :-* Me so happy for you. When other couples get married and all…it really gives me hope too. And brings me a big smile! :))
Mine relation is just 5 month old….so can’t even force him much. But then can’t even give much time either. Abhi jawan nahi rahi mein :toothygrin:
I am just wishing it happens soon. :blush:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:29 pm

Jinal I took years to finally commit. :|

Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:28 pm

awesome SUMA :yahoo: :yahoo: actually all these caste and religion issues dont matter if you are happy at the end of the day. I myself helped my “brahmin” friend get married to and a muslim guy and “touchwood” she is so happy now. :)) Infact that’s the reason we sort of celebrate eid also now. ;)

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:32 pm

WOW! Muslim with a brahmin is like awesome!!! It feels so nice na when we hear about such weddings.. it shows how we are growing mature and accepting with each generation :) This is especially needed in a country like ours that is so diverse :)

Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:34 pm

awww thats so cute Rati…..me too hate this caste religion issues in love.
I had been in relation with a Muslim guy for a year 3 years back and he got married last year only. Religion was the issue with me. So I had been ‘no more love’ mind since 3 years….until my present BF came into picture. :toothygrin:
With him there is no issue….except he needs time to settle down….own a house, etc. (he is 24 still)
And me got no time. :((

Farha January 18, 2011 at 3:38 pm

Suma..i m a muslim married to a kasmiri brahmin pandit….and imagine kashimir pandits and muslims have such a bad history…touchwood…my inlaws lovvee me ssssoooooooo much…i simply adore my sasuma…u knw wen i was in the delivery room from my mother, MIL and hubby i had to chose one person to be wid me and i chose her…but she told my hubby to b wid me…coz she said it will create a bond between us… :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: i m gettn tooo emotional today… :| :| :| :| :|

Sonam January 18, 2011 at 3:34 pm

Wow Suma!!! :laugh: Congratulations for this news …I did’nt know you are getting married :-* :heart: :heart:

(Actually even I am scared of this marriage and babies thingy…but I hav some time…2-4 yrs :)) )

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:40 pm

Awwww……I wish I too get such MIL too Farha……your MIL sounds so adorable………. :-* :-*

Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:42 pm

OMG Farha… this is great.. i know bout the Kashmiri Muslim and pandit issues but this is awesome Farha…. Its so nice na when people accept such relationships with such maturity and love :)
Your MIL is great re… She seems to be a very understanding and a loving lady :) TOUCHWOOD…
May you be always so happy :) :*

Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:43 pm

thankooo Sonam :) We haven’t really made an official announcement… Will be doing it next month i guess :)

Farha January 18, 2011 at 3:45 pm

Thanku Jinal :thanks: :thanks: :thanks: :thanks: :thanks: ..she is a sweetheart…me love her :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: Inshallah u wil hav a rockin sasuma :waytogo: :waytogo: :waytogo: :waytogo: :waytogo: :waytogo: :waytogo:

Farha January 18, 2011 at 3:51 pm

thaaankuuuuuuu Suma :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :-*

Sonam January 18, 2011 at 4:16 pm

Ok Suma share with us when the announcement is done :))

rids January 18, 2011 at 3:08 pm

errr….. pregnancy post . . mera toh idhaar kuch kaam nai hai …….. but gud luck rati !! may u hv a wonderful fairy doll :) :) :)

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naina January 18, 2011 at 3:11 pm

both of you will have adorable babies :)) :)) :)) :kissblow: :kissblow: :kissblow:
though i dont need the article now, :clap: for the thought behind it :))

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jomol January 18, 2011 at 3:22 pm

I almost gave all the tips….isnt it…..Mr…donkey…..except the position….errr……. :beatup: :beatup: :beatup: :beatup: :heh: :shame: :shame: :shame: :shame: :shame: :shame: :shame:

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jomol January 18, 2011 at 3:27 pm

But, a pat on your back for putting up these videos together…..right now,, I will pass it on to my friends….I will refer to them when I need them………….. O:)

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Sanjeev January 18, 2011 at 3:29 pm

:thanks:

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jomol January 18, 2011 at 3:28 pm

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww…..Jinal…………i read you are just going to college, or doign postgrad………..you are still jawan :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:33 pm

i agree i agree :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin:

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:36 pm

:thanks: Jomol. But he is younger to me….8 months! :((
And me finish my post grad in 2008 :((
me 25 now!!!!! :shock:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:39 pm

ooh that shouldn’t be a problem Jinal… My best friend got married last month and her hubby is a year and two months younger to her…
They are insanely happy :D

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:42 pm

hehe….this makes me sound better………….. :hugleft:
Ab sabka number line mein hai
first Cali and then you…..and then with all of your prayers…..hopefully mine
then we shall have babies…..and have an IMBB meet….go with our babies to meet Rati’s babies………….. :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:45 pm

oh yes yes! Rati please adorable babies… they’ll inherit this blog and then our babies shall also be IMBB friends with each other!!!! ooooooohhh WOW!!!!!

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:54 pm

That’;s an awesome thought. :yahoo:

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anks January 19, 2011 at 10:54 am

Don’t worry Jinal…. Ash is older than Jr B and they make such a rocking couple!

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Jinal January 19, 2011 at 11:02 am

thanx Anks…..you guys make my day………….love you all :-* :-*

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Farha January 18, 2011 at 3:33 pm

Rati..doodho nahao puto phalo :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: ….I m sure u will have a doll of a daughter :shame: ….My hubby wants a second lekin maine kaan pakde hai…bas ek kaafi hai :stop: :stop: :stop: :stop: :stop: :stop:

I m just rambling but we do tend to ignore so many thngs that god gives us…i always dreamt of being a bride but had a court marriage so cudnt have the whole SHaadi ki rasam and all and i feel bad abt it(the reson that i m gettn over excited for my BIL’s wedding)….but now i wonder wat Cali and Jinal r goin thru…atleast i had a maariage …i shud b thankful for that….I sincerely wish that our Cali and Jinal have nice big fat weddings :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: ….

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:36 pm

wish me too Farha :( :wilt: :wilt: :wilt: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :yelo: :yelo: :yelo: :yelo: :yelo: :yelo:

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Farha January 18, 2011 at 3:41 pm

Suma…u will make an awesumm bride…u hav such cuuuuuuuttttttttttteeeee eyes….. :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: Keep us updated…. :-*

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:44 pm

oh thankoooooo :) and the whole IMBB gang will be invited! This’ll be so awesome!!! :D :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:37 pm

awww….. :thanks: :thanks: Farha :hugleft:
sooooooooooo sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet of you :brokenheart:

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 3:38 pm

sorry my bad…..that was * :heart: :heart:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:50 pm

*tight hugs* I wanted a happy happy marriage myself but most of the people at my marriage were sulking. Infact while my var mala awas going on, one of my uncle was telling my dad how great rishtas he could have got for me. The only people who were happy on my wedding were my friends (who danced like mad and added happiness to my marriage) and my mom. But over a period of time things have got sorted and my parents are fond of Sanjeev now. :)

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 3:53 pm

Honestly, i was on cloud nine when i got married. I was the golu molu bride because for one full year of my marriage struggle with my parents I had put on loads of weight so that no other guy says yes to marrying me. :yelo: Two of us looked like a mismatched couple but who cared :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

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Farha January 18, 2011 at 4:00 pm

U reaaly put on weight so that no one says yess :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: ….yeh to pyaar ki ultimate qurbaani hai :toothygrin: …Sanjeevji u bettr nvr let this lady get away frm u…..and really end of the day nthn else maaters othr than the fact that u belong to each othr :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: Oh God u guys r makin me weep today :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: !!!!!

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Sonam January 18, 2011 at 4:05 pm

Even I am feeling like weeping…but m in office with so many ppl :((

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:06 pm

he eh yeah..i dint shop , dint get a hair cut or waxing done for done full year :sick Actually it was not intentional farha, i just dint feel like dressing up or do anything. I wore stoopid track pants all year round , i barely used to comb my hair. :(( It was bad time but that was all in past. :))

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:10 pm

But he did a bigger thing, he stood by me..OMG!! I am also so senti :weep:

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Farha January 18, 2011 at 4:14 pm

:hugleft: :hughright: Didn’t shop one full year…u r givin me heart attack :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: Rati :jaiho: …i completely understand the not feelin like doin enethn else waala part….but aallls well that ends well na..and the cherry on the cake is that inlaws actually accept and giv u sooo much of looove…it made me smile sooo much wen u mentioned that ur inlaws celebrated lohri :toothygrin: …my FIL keeps on tellin Ansh these Urdu words and telln him that he is half muslim…and i feel sooo happy and blessed… :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: Once u have kids it will will brng ur inlwas even closer :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:56 pm

awww!!! That’s cute. :)) *a biigg touchwood* :hugleft:

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Farha January 18, 2011 at 3:56 pm

Haaaaaaawwwwwwwwww :teeth: :teeth: :teeth: :teeth: !!!!!!! How can ppl do dat :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: !!!!! Yeah frnds rock na :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: …although i cudnt invite ene of mine..everyone called me up dat day..one of my frnd told me..if u ever want to run away and get married jst tell me ..i will be the witness…hehe he even had infrmd his mom dat i may land up any day…thankfully i didnt hav to undergo bhaagne waala drama :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:01 pm

Sanjeev and I became witness at our friend’s wedding. :D But guy’s family completly supported. Over a period of time her parents have accepted her marrigee and now she visits them as well but still they have not accepted the guy. I am sure that will also happen soon. :))

Yeah my friends totally made my day..Apart from my mom, they were the ones who brought smile on my face. :))

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Sonam January 18, 2011 at 3:58 pm

Oh !!!You might have felt so bad that time :(( …gud to know that ur parents now like Sanjeev :))

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:02 pm

that was all in past but good we went through that. I kinda made us realize each other’s worth. :)

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 3:57 pm

OMG! You guys have gone through a lot Rati :( But you know I am sure these obstacles have made your and Sanjeev’s bond so much stronger :)
Now that all is well, I wish for you to have the best babies in the world and that u guys are happy always :-* :-* :-* :-*

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:03 pm

That have and wish you the same Suma. :)) May you have a great life ahead. :-*

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Sonam January 18, 2011 at 4:07 pm

OMG!!!With so much marraige talk,even I am feeling like getting married :blush:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:09 pm

:waytogo:

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Sonam January 18, 2011 at 4:13 pm

Oh !!No nooooooooooooo not so soon…m just 22…still my careeer has to go a long way :waiting: :waiting: :waiting: :waiting:

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Priya January 18, 2011 at 4:31 pm

:-* :-* to everyone….feels nice to be part of a large gang of friends….and hope everyones wishes cms true…marriage and babies…. :-*

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:59 pm

:-* :-*

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calicoaster January 18, 2011 at 4:37 pm

Nice post Sanjeev..Jinal, dont worry! things will be fine !! :) … I may get married soon, but it won’t be any church or mandap wedding….

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 5:00 pm

awww!! Just get married soon. Nothing else would matter at the end of the day if you and your hubby would be happy. And your parents would be just fine once they see you happy. :))

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calicoaster January 18, 2011 at 5:24 pm

Yeah Rati!! Today we both discussed with our parents and decided finally that it will be good for everyone if we go for court marriage here. My parents said, they still find it difficult to accept, so I should not wait any more for their acceptance. And BF’s parents have agreed, so they might come to bless us!!..I am feeling all strange and empty right now!!

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Farha January 18, 2011 at 5:35 pm

Believe me Cali…once u get married..thng will eventually fall into place…coz once parents see how happy u r..nthn else will matter to them enemore…Inshallah all will be gr8!!!! Jst thank god always that atleast u r goin to b together :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin:

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Shyna January 18, 2011 at 5:50 pm

It is always like that Cali, parents become all the more possessive and cautious when it comes to their daughter’s marriage, unlike son’s…don worry, will pray for you both!! :pray: :rose:

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calicoaster January 18, 2011 at 6:05 pm

Thank you so much Shyna!! :))

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calicoaster January 18, 2011 at 6:15 pm

Yeah Farha…Reading everything from all you guys really boosts my morale a lot!! :)) …This place is ultimate!! I :heart: BB .. :thanks: :thanks: :thanks: :thanks: :thanks: all!! I love you guys!! :-*

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 6:28 pm

Love you too :-* :-* :-* :-*

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Shyna January 18, 2011 at 11:56 pm

IMBB is a real stress buster for me!!!whenever am down or desperate i login and nowadays nothing else gives me so much relief….even at this moment, something is bothering me a lot, unable to sleep; and earlier when i felt so i used to listen to music but now am in front of my laptop reading posts n comments!! :thanks: :-*

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Jinal January 18, 2011 at 11:58 pm

Love you too Cali. You can quickly have court marriage before mom-dad bring in some more hurdles.
Baad mein u can hv proper church wedding…..:))
I know everything will be alright now….just stick to each other through this phase….and rest of life will be a bliss :-*

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naina January 18, 2011 at 4:50 pm

love is in the air :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 5:01 pm

when are you getting married? :yelo: :yelo: :yelo:

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naina January 18, 2011 at 5:06 pm

4-5 years later , pukka se .. i ll be screaming from the rooftop whenever i am getting married :happydance:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 7:49 pm

start growing some hair on your head then..4-5 saal to lag hi jaayenge decent hair cut ke liye :lol2: :lol2: :happydance:

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calicoaster January 18, 2011 at 4:51 pm

ha ha…Its so nice to see people happily married despite the diversities in caste, religion and everything else!! :) :) :)

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naina January 18, 2011 at 4:56 pm

:)) :)) :)) :)) its like one big unseen supportive family here :D :D :D
i and my bf have been dating for 6 years now and we are just 21/22 ..so theres a long way to go :toothygrin:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 5:02 pm

OMGG!! bachpan se hi date karna shuru kar diya tha .. :tongue:

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naina January 18, 2011 at 5:04 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: yaa.. kind of .. it is the first and ‘hopefully’ last relationship for both of us .. school sweethearts types :toothygrin:

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calicoaster January 18, 2011 at 5:22 pm

sooo cuuuuuuuuuuutee!! :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*

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rids January 18, 2011 at 6:12 pm

hahahahahaha …naina ..same pinch ….. me startin likin by bf since 8th std ….. lol lol … now we re together since ages……..

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 7:45 pm

Awww!!! That’s super dooper cute, Naina. :-* :-* :-* :-* :-*

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 4:53 pm

Not too soon :toothygrin:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 5:02 pm

Thank you. :))

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 5:26 pm

hey sanjeev,very helpful n informative post ya..i knw how it is to keep trying n nt concieving even though by God’s grace i dnt ve 2 try 4 lng only a few months but even those few months were pretty CALCULATIVE 2 say d least!! :toothygrin: :toothygrin:
i nw ve a beautiful dol(who i ve named miraya by d way!! :jiggy1: :jiggy1: ) but i had 1 miscarriage b4 tht n its was devastating..i seriosuly hop n pray tht every couple is blessed wid a healthy baby.my daughter is under weight n has a small hole in her heart n so i always wish tht all kids r healthy..
God bless u all!!

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Insiya January 18, 2011 at 5:55 pm

omg i will pray for your daughter. May god bless her with great health and courage :) :pray:

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Sanjeev January 18, 2011 at 6:22 pm

Hi Sonal, *hugs*

I am sure God will keep your child fine. :)

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Sanjeev January 18, 2011 at 6:23 pm

And oh I forgot to ask, what does miraya mean? :)

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Sanjeev January 18, 2011 at 6:24 pm

Mir means god (I think). Does it mean God has come or something? :)

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 7:13 pm

*tight hugs* Sonal. :))

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 5:57 pm

thanx insiya..

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Insiya January 18, 2011 at 6:04 pm

I have seen the pain people go through while trying to conceive. My aunt was married around 15-17 years ago and still she can’t have kids so she had to adopt. My other aunt whose married for 10 years can’t have kids so even she had to adopt and the worst part her son now has brain tumor (he’s just 4). Sometimes seeing pain people go through just makes you value what you have.The difference between me and my youngest sibling is of 17 years. My mom was in so much depression, she was even considering abortion. but everything happens as god wills. and believe me it happens for good :))

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shilpa January 18, 2011 at 6:13 pm

hi all……….
maine sab ki wedding stories padhi……itni interesting hai……love marrriages…..wow……i wish all of u good luck…….hope all of u get what u desire…amen…..
sanjeev rename this post as
“HOW TO GET UR PARENTS AGREE FOR A YOUR LOVE MARRIAGE”

and u r right…..its not easy to have babies…its beeen three years in my case…

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Sanjeev January 18, 2011 at 6:55 pm

Shilpa, is saal kuchh kar hi daalo… teen chaar phool khila hi do bagiya mein. :joker: :joker:

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shilpa January 18, 2011 at 7:32 pm

: :waiting: :waiting: :waiting: :waiting: ….waiting to do sooooo….

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Suma January 18, 2011 at 6:35 pm

I think this was the besht chat session i have ever had :) Kudos to IMBB :)

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bhumika January 18, 2011 at 6:37 pm

hehe…i wish rati u get a veryyy cute daughter jus like u..
n suma,jinal,cali…wish u marry soonnnnnnn…and all ur wishes cum true…

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Noopur January 18, 2011 at 6:49 pm

hey rati…dats really sad dat u guys went thru such bad time.. :(
bt ur right dat it makes u realize each others worth…
gob bless u both… hope we get to see rati jr. soon :)

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Sanjeev January 18, 2011 at 6:51 pm

:toothygrin:

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jomol January 18, 2011 at 7:02 pm

Shilpa….dont’ worry yaar…….you just need to see a good doctor and RELAX…….you will have lot of babies…….. :woot: :woot: :woot: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

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Rati January 18, 2011 at 7:07 pm

We’ll throw a party for you on IMBB , Shilpa. :-* :happydance:

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shilpa January 18, 2011 at 7:34 pm

hw sweet rati….thx a ton……… :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

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shilpa January 18, 2011 at 7:33 pm

jomol…….thx fr the wishes

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jomol January 18, 2011 at 7:10 pm

Sonal…………….don’;t worry your baby will be fine…………as she grows up….the hole in her heart will fill out

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Priya January 18, 2011 at 7:33 pm

i agree sonal…the hole will def fill out….my one yr neice also had a hole in the heart…but she recovered in a yrs time…the doc just said ..wait …it will fill out….2 mths back we got the news that everything is fine…tight hugs to miraya !!!! :hughright:

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 7:13 pm

exactly!! shilpa, sometimes trying so hard also takes a toll on u..just relax..wat i did was,found out my ovulating days thru scan (i dnt remember wat its called) n they tell u exactly,tht u shud try 2day..ths is also a tiresome process(one has 2 go 2 d doc 4 a couple of days daily) but thn at d end wen u do concieve n thn deliver a healthy n cute baby,it all seems worth it!! i knw so many ppl who r trying 4 a while(2 of thm r a doc themselves) n i knw how it feels..chill gal n i pray 2 BABA 2 bless u wid a baby veryyyyyyyyyy sooonnnnnn.. *hugs*

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 7:16 pm

m keeping my fingers crossed on tht one!
hey me sad :( ..i tld u guys tht i ve finally named my daughetr miraya n no comments frm ne one of u..do u guys even remember tht i took ur advice on ths one??

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zeeba January 18, 2011 at 7:32 pm

oh yes..i suggested MYrah i guess… :) dnt worry u r angel will be fine.. :)
lots of love n kisses to her.

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jomol January 18, 2011 at 7:28 pm

sonal…its called follicular scan……Miraya is a lovely name Sonal…..me love it :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance:

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 7:30 pm

yup!! nw i remember..i guess age is taking a toll on me ;-) ;-)
n thanx, me lvu it 2!!! :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

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shilpa January 18, 2011 at 7:40 pm

hey sonal…thats correct…all this process stresses u out……..and i have 20 reports of that follicular scan………….nw i m totally f**ked up with the entire process………..mai thak gayi hun…..
miraya is a lovely name……give all my love to her……she must be really cute…i also want a daughter…..daughters are adorable….

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 7:43 pm

:) hey group hug!!(i dnt knw wthr there is a smiley 4 tht ?:) ?:) n sanjeev miraaya means lord krishna’s devotee!!

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Samin January 18, 2011 at 7:56 pm

Oh god.. Wot a wonderful chat session..!! :-* :-*
Me too wanna get married soon.. :) i vl bcom 23 dis march.. Itz a very late to get married 4 a muslim gal in our region.. i had foughted a lot wid ma parents to not get married soon.. Now dey r not ready to hear me anymore.. They hav started th discussion.. So i vl b having an arranged marrg soon as my bf said he need 2 more years to settle down.. So our 4 yrs relatn is gonna end.. :( :(

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Samin January 18, 2011 at 8:02 pm

Bad bad english… :( :(
Read…
Itz a very late age to get married 4 a muslim gal in our region.. I had fought a lot wid ma parents…
(all due to ma xcitements.. :( :( )

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Tarannum January 18, 2011 at 8:42 pm

My….
I simply loved all the comments on the topic…. somehow, it all sounded like a gang of college friends sharing their fears, joy and experiences…. cho chweet…… May God bless all those who have kids, give cutie ones to those in line ;) and also, those who are in love… may u get the love of ur life and get married :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
Rati and Sanjeev, ur love story is so sweet… itti cute si love ishtory …. :kissblow: :kissblow:kissblow: :kissblow: :kissblow: :kissblow:

Sonal…. we all wud pray and i am sure ur sweet Miraya will be the most beautiful and healthy child u can think of…
AAAH!
Love being on IMBB family… thanx rati…

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 8:45 pm

thanx all of u all 4 alllll ur wishes..m really touched n m sure that all ur prayers ll wrk!! :))

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Bee January 18, 2011 at 8:50 pm

@Sonal.. Miraya is sucha lovely name :)

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 8:59 pm

thanxxxxx..i knw wat i went thru selecting a name 4 her but nw m sooooo relieved. u knw a few of my relatives said thts its n ok ok name but ths name kinda stuck wid me n so i dnt budge,i had 2 even fight wid my hubby but thm miraaya singh it is!! :toothygrin: :toothygrin:

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sonal January 18, 2011 at 9:05 pm

shilpa dnt worry babes,i knw exactly how it feels but d only thing u can do is dnt get stressed,ve a calm mind n enjoy..i knw its easier said thn dne but all will happen in gud tme..u knw d only thing which kept me goin thru my tough times was my faith in SAI BABA n his assurance tht i ll never let my devotees down so just ve patience and faith!!ll pray 4 u :pray: :pray: tke cre n alllllll d best!!! :hughright: :hughright:

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Bee January 18, 2011 at 9:09 pm

:happydance: :happydance: heyyy congrats Suma- dats grt news
u’ll be a very very pretty bride :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

and yeahhhh even m baby-phobic even though I love them :(
meri shadi ko just 6 mnths hue and all my relatives keep pestering me about kids….
donno what m I going to do :(( :stars: :stars: :stars:

Btw- Sanjeev ji- thnks a ton. grt vids :)
Ive got pcos and every1 back home(other than the docs) keep scaring me.
but what I feel is: unless ure not healthy enuff how can u take care of the kid.. m I right???
and All the best for u and Rati… :happydance: :happydance: :happydance:

1 aur request…. Some good vids on reducing belly fat plzzz- m stuck with that :((

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Sanjeev January 18, 2011 at 9:59 pm

Hi Bee, Will post soon :)

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Noopur January 18, 2011 at 10:55 pm

god bless little miraya.. i sooo love baby girlsss…thy r absolute angels….

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Charan January 19, 2011 at 12:19 am

The topic is very close to my heart as it did take time for me to conceive. I had friends who were trying sincerely for about 2 years and then had to go through the IVF route. So I already knew how tough its going to be. so when we started trying, it became like a chore (you know). Its like ” next week is ovulation time, so be ready” :| . But when it doesn’t happen that much, I ended up being little depressed about it. So it went on like that for about 6 months and it pretty difficult when you attend a function and everybody wants to know whats going on with you.

We decided to have children only after 5 years of marriage and that was fine with me. I was not ready for that kind of responsibility. But surprisingly, I found that I was pregnant when I was least expecting it :evilgrin: . We decided to take a break with all those and what do you know, I ended up pregnant.

My advise to you is, if it takes time, then believe that its ok. Lot of people are having trouble with conceiving these days, it doesn’t matter with the age. I think maybe we are genetically changing as well. one of my friend had her daughter after trying for 3 years and within 6 months of her delivery, she was pregnant again with her son :snicker: . So all I am saying is thats its different for everyone.

Best of luck… hope everything works for you :)

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Rati January 19, 2011 at 12:40 am

Thanks for sharing this, Charan. It helps. :-*

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anks January 19, 2011 at 10:57 am

Rati & Sanjeev… all the best! hope you have adorable golu molus…. :D

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veena January 19, 2011 at 11:31 am

any videos on hw to get married ? :P jus kidding,
useful article RAti & CO :thanks:

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