How To Flirt With A Guy

How To Flirt With A Guy

how to flirt with a guy
You might think that a woman must be a head-turning beauty to be able to flirt with a guy. But in truth, flirting is more to do with psychological play, rather than just physical attributes. If you like a guy and want him to notice you or to know that you’re interested, you must know how to flirt effectively.

Dress For the Part

This may sound shallow, but it is essential to get things started. It’s no secret that men like pretty women. Don’t be slipshod in your appearance when you know you will be meeting him. Wear something that flatters your figure, but don’t dress skimpily. It might get you the attention you want, but the nicer guys out there would rather you left some things to the imagination. For instance, you can tease his imagination by wearing a knee-length skirt that shows off your well-tones legs. But if you wear hot pants, he’ll think of you as nothing beyond eye candy.
Flaunt the asset that you’d like him to see. This could mean leaving your gorgeous hair open for him to admire or lining your beautiful eyes with extra care.

Invite him With a Smile

No guy can resist a woman’s enigmatic smile. When you spot a cute guy at the café or the library, make eye contact and give him a special smile. You can use a smile convey that you like what he’s wearing, or simply that you’re happy he’s around. A one to one smile can make him feel there is a connection between you and he will interpret it as an invitation to talk to you.

Get Out of Your Group

Imagine you are hanging out with a bunch of friends, and you see a guy looking at you again and again. What do you do? You help him out by moving out alone for a few minutes so that he gets the chance to approach you. Men can be shy sometimes, and their pride doesn’t want to handle the risk of being rejected by you in the midst of so many people.

Initiate with the Eyes

Eyes, they say, are windows into one’s soul. Whether he’s your date at a party or whether he’s a stranger in a roomful of people, eye contact can speak volumes. Giving him one long lingering stare before you turn away will send shivers down his spine. And you can glance at him repeatedly to make him feel like you’re attracted. Looking at him from head to toe very discreetly before you refocus on his face will let him know you’re checking him out. Build the anticipation.

Be Interesting

The surest way to be interesting is to be interested in him. Men love attention. Ask him about his interests and make sure you listen attentively. Talk to him about what he likes to let him know you care. As you talk, you will discover common topics of interest. Then you can talk about those common things and a smart conversation about what both of you share views on will impress him even more.


When you are talking to him, casually lay a hand on his shoulder, or if you’ve known him for longer, on his thigh. Hold his hand briefly while crossing the street or walking, and let go again like you didn’t notice. Rest your head on his shoulder when you’re tired. This way he gets into the role of the protective caring male and feels like you need him.
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Discreet Sexual Innuendo

As you start knowing him better and depending on how fast you want to go, you can drop hints. Running your fingers down your glass in a restaurant will get his imagination running. Reading a book and moving your tongue over your lips will also turn him on. Playful gestures such as twirling a lock of hair with the fingers or whispering in low tones also hooks a man’s attention. Move closer to him while talking and to make his pulse race.

Inflate His Ego

Praise him before his friends and colleagues. Laugh at his jokes and make him feel that you’re enjoying yourself with him. Show your appreciation where you feel it.


If he compliments you, don’t be over-modest. Accept the compliment and return it creatively. For example, if he says, “That’s a nice dress you’re wearing.”, you can smile and say, “Thanks. It’s my favourite one too. By the way, your new haircut really suits you.”
Let him know you notice the little details like a new perfume he may be wearing, his shoes or just a sweet gesture he may have made. But don’t just compliment him for the sake of it or you will sound fake. Compliments sound more sincere when they are about things you really like.

Be Yourself With Him

Putting on an act will get you nowhere. Even if you do all these things, you must be natural and true to what you feel. If there is something you don’t like, don’t hesitate to point it out. Be sweet but have an opinion. He will respect you and appreciate you for it as it’ll tell him how close you are and also how genuine your advances are.

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18 thoughts on “How To Flirt With A Guy

    1. Maine ye baat sahi guess ki! :hihi: 😀
      I don’t think it’s time for me to try my hand at flirting yet.So,I’ll be a good girl and jump to it when the time is right. O:) O:)

    2. LOL… now Sanjeev will notice each and every action of yours and see if you are following the tips in this article :toothygrin:

    3. On second thoughts, do you really need to try, Rati? Just blow up that TBS photoshoot picture of yours and kahani khatam :yahoo:

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