In every relationship, be it that of husband and wife or of boyfriend and girlfriend, there comes a time when both partners get so used to each others habits that they avoid sharing their thoughts and feelings with each other. Both the partners start thinking that their other half won’t be able to understand so why to bother him or her. Ultimately, there comes a big gap between the soulmates. So guys, do you really want that to happen to your relationship? I guess not. Here I’m giving you some points as to how you can keep your relationship afloat and blossoming..
Listen to your Partner
When your partner wants to share something with you, don’t just turn a deaf ear towards him, listen to what he or she has to tell you.. If you aren’t even able to understand what he is saying, show a keen interest n his talk.. In this way you both will be able to get even closer to each other..
Don’t be Judgmental
While your partner is pouring his/her heart in front of you, please don’t be judgemental, don’t strart pointing out his/her blunders and mistakes.. Just listen calmly as to what they have to say.. Being judgemental will only ruin things and your little chat will eventually turn into a fight.. So please avoid being judgemental.. Right now your partner needs just someone to listen to him/her..
Avoid Raising your Voice
When you feel irritated avoid talking, instead try to listen otherwise you will say something which you surely will come to regret later. Once try to be a good hearing ear.
Trust your partner
A key to a healthy and long relationship is trust. Don`t question the other person`s love all the time. If he is saying he loves you, try to trust him even though you may have doubt. You might drive him away by being pessimistic. I know its hard to believe someone, but give it a go for once.
Forgive and Forget
In every relationship its really important that you don’t keep the past grudges in your heart. Coz if you do then on the slightest fights, all the past agonies come tumbling down and you say things you don’t even mean to say. Things you surely will regret later. So try to forgive and forget. Don’t just say to your partner that i forgive you, mean it. Let me give you a tip, when you had a fight, don’t think too much about the flaws of your partner. Try to divert your mind doing something else. It will help you relax and your anger will evaporate soon enough.
Try Not to Make a Fuss About Everything
Don’t be a control freak. Try to loosen the reigns. Even if your partner is doing something which is against your wish, don’t start at him at that precise moment. It will only start up an argument. Wait for the right moment, when he is done then keep your point of view. Also try to listen to him.
Don’t be too egoistic. Admit it whenever you are wrong. Otherwise it will only lengthen the argument. You won’t feel small on admitting your mistake, in fact your partner will be amazed. Before entering any argument reflect as to what you are fighting about. If you are the culprit, just admit it instead of defending yourself. Trust me it will save a lot of pain, hurt and maybe even heart ache. Coz once you start arguing, before you realize it, you might be walking down the memory lane, fighting about past issues, most of which might be irrelevant.
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