There may be times when some things are best left unsaid, but there are times when you should just tell your man that you’re not okay. Come on, he’s not a mind reader. And understanding women is not exactly a piece of cake with our monthly mood swings and a lot more. Sometimes even we don’t understand ourselves. So let’s just reduce their work, and be straight up front about our feelings.
1. When he makes you angry
He is not a mind reader, again! You may not want to share how you’re feeling because you may be embarrassed. But telling him what exactly you’re feeling may make you feel better. The passive aggressive treatment will annoy the both of you. So tell him how you feel, he might even make it up to you (who knows!).
2. When he checks other girls out
I don’t really have a problem with this because we check out other people together. We are both fitness freaks, so we either see if someone has a really good figure (guy or girl) or if someone has a really good outfit on. Even if you’re not okay with it. Find a nice way to convey it to him. He may take it well.
This is the first thing you should be telling him. It is not something to hide. It may warn him about your mood swings and if he’s nice, he may do things to make you feel better. And which girl does not like that!
4. When he creates uncomfortable situations
If he does something which is making you uncomfortable, tell him. It may start an argument but it may be worth it. He may understand you and next time may try to make you feel comfortable if a similar situation arises.
5. When you are not happy in bed
It can be really hard to tell your boyfriend what you want in bed, whether that’s because you’re shy or because he thinks he’s doing something great and you don’t want to hurt his feelings. The truth is, dudes love it when you tell them what you want. So, you should definitely speak up!
6. When trust issues arise
If you feel like you can’t trust your boyfriend or you think he’s doing something shady, you need to speak up. I know this is so incredibly hard and scary, but you have to do it. Don’t just try to go through his phone or follow him around. Talk to him about it. Of course, there is always the chance that he’ll lie to you, but there’s also the chance that he’ll come clean and you guys can have a healthy discussion. And there’s always the chance that you’re wrong!
7. When your long term goals are different
It’s so important to be honest about what you want from the relationship. Don’t say you’re cool with keeping things casual if what you really want is something serious. Don’t act like you’re okay with seeing other people when you actually want to be exclusive. And if he says he’s not looking for a long-term commitment, and you are, don’t think the relationship will work. It won’t.
These are a few things you should let your man know. Don’t hide things from him. It may not be healthy at all.
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