How to deal with breakups?
Have you felt that the world has just ended when you broke up with your love? Let’s face it. Breakups play a very important part in our lives, in molding us. They can truly be a life changing experience and retard your true personality. Here are some quick tips for getting over the breakup blues
1. Think over, how long could you drag the relationship like this? Would you be happy if you were still together? Remember, the sooner you end an unwanted relationship the better it is for you.
2. Just look around; your parents, siblings, friends, they all love you, and you have more than enough reasons to move on.
3. Love yourself to the core. Just admire and love love love yourself for what you are and the way you are, so much that you just don’t need an unhappy and draggy relationship.
4. Engage yourself in things you love doing. A walk in the park, playing with children, cooking, painting your walls or just anything. It may seem stupid to others, but who cares as long as its making you feel the best.
5. Talk to people around you. Don’t be scared of people or keep yourself away from everyone. You have not committed a sin, it’s just okay. The more you talk about it, the more easy it is to face it.
6. Go shopping. I love going shopping alone even if it is window shopping. Makes you forget everything and so relaxed.
7. Trust and respect your decision. Trust yourself. Don’t feel guilty for what has happened. Some relationships are not meant to work, and as long as you have given your best you need not worry, because the best is on its way for you. It might reach you late, but it is surely what you deserve.:)
So ladies love yourself, and don’t let any unworthy person be the reason for your tears. You are the best for many.:-) 🙂 cheers to womanhood 🙂
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🙂 thank u so much 🙂
No mention of alcohol? It is cheaper than shopping. O:)
😛 actually…! Tat helps too…:D
helps for that moment of time and God forbid u r with someone who is not your friend..all the secrets are out!! :))
very helpful article kamini.. :clap: it took me more than 3 years to move on from my breakup.. but now i am happy that i finally found someone who’s worth my love.. :))
Sireesha ji, woh 3 years aap single thi? ?:)
yup.. :toothygrin:
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Yes Nainaa, you have to get into one first before you get out of it. :tongue: :tongue:
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:weep: :weep: :weep: i was/am into one .. i really donno :((
Nainaaaaaaa… :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright:
@Aruna
hehe yeah true,and 1should drink only when wit good and reliable set of frens
@Sireesha
Glad u liked it 🙂 🙂 Awww 3years is a long time.! Actually i think it depends a lot on how you move out of it,as in the reason.I have seen so many people around who have just messed their lives cos of breakups.Have a happy life wit your love of life 🙂
Naina what happened sweetz 🙁
kamini she is in a happy goody good relationship. she knows nothing about breakups. 😛 *touchwood* 😀
i so wish what u said was true rati .. :idk:
errrrr… :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep:
:blush: :fingersxd: Nice article Kamini…
seriously, Loving urself and respecting ur decision helps. I had a tough time thinking about getting out of a relationship and then, finally getting out of one. It’s ur own courage, strength and support from friends and family which helps you to deal with the situation…
:shy: :bye: :fingersxd: :fingersxd:
@tarry
Very true.You have to face it.I am sure everyone tries their best to make it work,but then when things are nomore worthy there’s no point in being tied up in a relationship,it would just be a burden.
OMG.! I sound lik some dadi amma now :tremble:
Na Kamini,
This is what i tell people… I took a decision, stood by it and when things did not work out, went ahead and moved…
🙂 yes tarry,gota balance between emotions and being practical.!
yeah rati…
In my case… it was a bit more than a simple breakup… It was a divorce… and a traumatic one..
kamini, i had tough time getting over with my break ups. guess that was the age. But all the points you have stated are true and very helpful. :waytogo: :waytogo:
Tarry,am glad u survived all of it and moved on for a better future tat surely should be and inspiration for many …. 🙂
Rati di,thanks a lot 🙂 guess that’s a learning phase of life,for a better future
Oh my typos :stars:
this post was written for me it seems .. i am going thru a bad phase in my realtionship .. my trust was broken and i was hurt .. and we are trying to build it and make it work out all over again but it is very very painful.and that is also the reason i am missing from everywhere.
sorry :(( i shudnt have said all this here.
Naina I am soo very sorry. I had no clue about it.. coz it was only a few days back you were happy and all. *tigggghhhhhht hugsssssssss** :-* :-* :-*
areyy no yaa.. don be .. i ll be fine in a few days :))
:-* :-* we;; you can spank and throw poop around. you might feel better 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆
Ratiii…you know what? I start washing utensils at home,whenever me and hubby have jhagdaa..and I make a lot of noise with them..It gives such pleasure and peace of mind..and then hubby starts laughing coz of all the bartan patakhna I do… Bless stainless steel!!! :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray: :pray:
Cali…my mom does the same!!
he he…you also try it Shyna..It is better to make noise using utensils than damage your vocal chords and strain yourself…. and it works everytime!! 😛 😛 😛
that’s so funny cali .. I think it’s a good way to vent out your anger 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 I toh go quiet and keep getting pissed :reallypissed:
Even I go quiet, but I don’t burn my blood fuming from within..he he he!!! 😛 😛 Utensils bechaare!! 😛 😛 But I am thankful for them…and now I feel like saying sorry to them too!! 😐 😐 😐 😐
I will also patko patki things now. aaj hi laadaai karti hoon sanjeev se :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance: :happydance:
:yelo: :yelo: :yelo: :yelo: :yelo: :yelo: :yelo:
Nainaa :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft:
I am sure everything will be fine girl….you are such great girl….sab theek ho jayega :-*
Hey Naina,
Dahling u wr my inspiration and now, u r finding it tough..
C, going by my experience i can say… listen to both ur heart and ur mind… then just sit alone in silence… listen to them again… the one who is loudest… go by it…
I was in a relationship for 7 odd years, it was going bad off and on… Still, i wanted it to work… then finally got married… but nothing worked fine… bruised both physically and emotionally, i finally took the step and moved ahead and am back to being single now.. am happy too…
U need to catch that one moment when u can find an answer… i am sure u wud…
and this is for u… :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: :hugleft: naina :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright:
It might be a temporary Naina, you never know! ..sometimes we are so engrossed in things, we feel that the world has ended because of this issue, but later you both may laugh on it. Just pray and have belief…!! tight :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright:
u know naina i went thru the exact same rblem some time ago and not long ago that is… he broke my trust .. and it was way long ago until i came to know.. very late…. till then i and my friend and evryone kept thinking i have the most perfect relationship ever.. until reality hit my life too… i was devastated… but i loved him wayyy too much and i knew he loved me too.. and was really sorry … i decided to forgive and we want to make it work out now…
but now the problem is me… i cant seem to have the same trust anymore.. i keep suspecting unnecessarily.. i have become paranoid and also keep taunting him.. of which he is fed up.. but i dont know wt to do.. my love is the same for him.. but i cant say abt respect and trust… but u know wht i feel ..the love is strong enough from both sides ..itl take time to get over it and time and love will heal…
so i will not discourage u and tell u to move on.. id say give it another chance.. see where it goes… only then ull be ble to make a bettr decision… good luck naina.. loads of hugs and kisses :hugleft: :hughright: :hugleft: :-* :-*
Ohhh naina *hugssss* a little advice, break-ups are easy compared to divorce..so think well before you commit, it will be difficult then.
i really cant think anymore shyna … its a bad roller coaster ride .
but :thanks:
Wool Hairrrrr :-* :-* :-* me like you loads :-*
Me too like both of you here!! :-* And Hi Rads!! 😀
me toooooo likes you rads and caliii and eberybodyyyy :kissing:
Awwww Naina,just try to think over if you could trust him again and he would never break it.? If u are sure of it,give it a chance.And don’t worry,everything will be fine.All i would suggest its better give a chance dependin on the reason ofcourse,but inspite of that if things don’t work out,come out of it.And personally for me,fidelity is never forgivable,just my personal opinion.
Take care dear :):)and don’t worry.
thats exactly what the problem is kamini .. its a tug of war between the heart n the brain (so filmy , i know) .. and i am too scared to take a stand… don wana regret anything in the future either ways .. 😐
My comments are so long 😐
And Naina 🙂 see everyone loves you so much 🙂 so you definitely have a reason to feel better and happy 🙂 so now give a bigggg smile 🙂
u know thats why i didnt want to come on imbb for a few days .. i knew i ll be sad n frumpy and all of you will be soooooo nice to me and if all of you can love me .. why cant he ?
but jomolllll ….. she said she was missing me so i came running running :toothygrin:
awwww!!! you say around only.. I’ll tell you gossip about radhika. :secret2: then you’d want to throw :poop: with loads of makkhis on her :snicker: :snicker: :snicker: :snicker: radhika :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:
Me miss you too Naina!! :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: Please stay here..and we’ll vent out our frustrations on Rads and Jomol here!! :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin:
You know Naina…sometimes we see this really pretty bag and spend tons of money and buy it…and then we meet this person who looks at it and goes what is this…what’s so great about it…like why would you spend so much money and buy this kinds…but you like the bag right..and you think it’s worth it right…so err..what I am trying to say is…some ppl just don’t like a good thing when they see it just cos they don’t understand it at all. Me don’t know your bf and in another 2 days you might just think he is the awesomest person in the whole world, but what I am trying to say is…if he cannot love you then that’s his problem. You have loads of ppl to like you..so you be happy 😀
i want to come and huggggg all of youuuu .. right now…. :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright:
rads i lobh you.. sachiii muchii and i wud be flirting with you now if u were a guy 😐 😐 😐 😐 :))
Seee…I knew you would get it soon as I said bag…I did think of saying shoe too but bag won :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:
I waaaant those blueeeeeeee stilettoes now..with peacock feather…
haaaaann.. i toh had forgotten about it only ..
i was missing u soo much here naina.. just read ur comments.. cheer up girl.. there is always a sunshine after a dark night.. u r a darling n i luv u for tht… :hugleft: :hugleft: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright:
radhika… :-* but I want a bag now 😐 😐 😐 :hunterwali: :hunterwali: :hunterwali:
I want shoes!! :wilt: :wilt: :wilt: :wilt: :wilt: :wilt:
Me double like your comment Rads!! 🙂 🙂 🙂
I dont know if u understood what I meant…I mean if a relationship is not working, better end it before you commit rather than dragging it and get married and finally suffer…am seeing live egs of couple of friends who did similar mistake in life…we become far too optimistic when it comes to love/affair but being sensible is wat matters rather than giving in for emotions…
I totally agree shyna. have learnt it the hard way myself.. :whistle: :whistle:
Shyna loveeed the last line 🙂 being sensible is better rather than giving in for emotions 🙂
Talking out of 10 years of affair experience and 7 years of marriage experience, Kamini…and seeing lots of people who suffer bcoz of such mistakes dear!!!
Cali you are too cute :-*
:toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :thanks: Kamini!! 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀
HUH??? I don’t get this…why this Anti-Radhika sentiment flowing around here??????????????????????????????????? :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep:
coz you don’t come here often these days… So we are planning to trick you to come here now!! :evilgrin: :evilgrin: :evilgrin: :evilgrin: :evilgrin: :evilgrin:
So Naina wat you have to do is just be practical,and take a stand,and don’t be scared,today you might feel its tough and you’l be hurt,but definitely your future will be happier . All the best,and don’t stay away from everyone,talk talk and talk, and you’ll feel better
:weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: :weep: O:) O:) O:) O:) O:) :weep: :weep: :weep:
😛 😛 😛 😛 😛 :-* :-* :-* :-* O:) O:) O:) O:) O:) O:) O:)
radssss i wont spank you for two days now….. but i still hate you 😛 😛 😛 .. i want a new bag now 😀 😀 😀 😀 😀
Heheheheeeeeeeee….I tho always want a new bag O:) O:) O:) O:)
me too.. she tempting about all the wrong things :spank: :spank: :spank:
Hey Naina,
Dahling u wr my inspiration and now, u r finding it tough..
C, going by my experience i can say… listen to both ur heart and ur mind… then just sit alone in silence… listen to them again… the one who is loudest… go by it…
I was in a relationship for 7 odd years, it was going bad off and on… Still, i wanted it to work… then finally got married… but nothing worked fine… bruised both physically and emotionally, i finally took the step and moved ahead and am back to being single now.. am happy too…
U need to catch that one moment when u can find an answer… i am sure u wud…
and this is for u… naina
i was ur inspiration ??? how ???? err… it makes me happy but how ??? ?:) taryyy … we complete 7 this july and he strayed long back.. i found out now .. thats a diff thing.. we want to make it work .. but the thing is will i ever trust hundred percent agin .. its like i want things to go back to normal but the voices in my head dont stop .. i really wana go deaf now. :sweat:
dahling
U inspired me to come for IMBB contest… remember…
Anyways, having strayed long ago… and u gettin to know so late… it surely is the BIG QUESTION naina… whether will it or won’t it… oki… give urself some time away from your man and ask urself what you want… look ahead, not the past… and you will surely find answers…
You are a very strong woman Tarry!
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tarrryyyyyyy huggsssss :hugleft: :hugleft: :hughright: :hugleft: :hughright: :hugleft:
tarry *tight hugs* to you as well. :))
Thanx Rati…
Am out of it now…. happier and much stronger…
nainaaaaaaa….. :-* :-* i guess its a passing phase ….even married people go thro these phases…. 😐 😐 😐 …loads of love and hugggsss…am sure u will come out of it smiling :-*
tarrrryyy…urs remind me so much of what my cousin went thro…but she came out of it much stronger and happier….. :drunk: :drunk: :drunk: :drunk:
Nice article kamini!!! :waytogo: :waytogo: :waytogo:
What if you get over a breakup, move on, are happy with your single life then the same person wants to come back in your life. I mean there was a reason you broke up and now…how am I supposed to react? and honesty inside I too feel lonely but going on the same roads again!??? 😥 😥
Shruti,
Suppose you quit your job, then sit idle at home for months, and then suddenly one day your old boss calls and asks you to join back? What would you do? :toothygrin: :toothygrin:
lol… I could only but laugh at this reply!! 🙂 😀
In a different sense what a male chauvinist view!! Why is “he” the boss in the scenario!!!! 😮
Err… ok, let me make you the boss then,
Suppose you tell your maid to stop coming to you home, then suddenly, months later, she comes and asks you to take her back. What would you do? :toothygrin: :toothygrin:
Heheheeeee…..:P 😛 😛
:jaiho: :jaiho: :jaiho: :jaiho:
Okay, now Im back to square one, need to introspect! ?:)
And suppose you say no your maid, and then she goes and finds another house to work in, and you have to do all your chores on your own, would you like that scenario?
And what if you find one better ?:) , at a lower wage and way more efficient, only if you wait patiently… 😉 😉 😀
@Shruthi Oh god! me going through the same situation… But it is worse coz he is my best friend also! Oh god! Break ups are hard! 🙁
same here same here!!! You so want to be the good old friends again..but it gets worse everyday:((
i decided to move out of a relationship because my parents were against it. i did not have the courage to go against the will of my family. my parents have done more than they could for me.. i respect them and i can never ever hurt them. but i truly love my boyfriend too. it was a very hard decision for me but i had no choice. it has been three days to it but i feel very lonely and guilty about it all the time. my boyfriend respects my decision and does not hate me, and that makes me feel worse.. he is the sweetest person ever and i hate myself for doing this to him.
You be like my friend naa…fine I won’t marry him but I am not marrying anyone else either kinds 😀
:toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: :toothygrin: YUPS NICE IDEA !!
hehehe… thats like blackmailing my parents. cant do that.. they have solid reasons for not letting me marry him..
now i realize how lucky those people are who settle down with the one they love.. like fairy tale endings. happily ever after! :heart:
bookmarking this page…..I might need soon :((
OYE !!! KYUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SUB SUB BOLO ………. i toh hav not even seen yr bf yaar … pic toh batav !!!!!!!!!! kon che haaa !!!!!!!!
:hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: :hughright: NAINAAAAAAAAAAA…. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! b positive !!! everything ll b fine !!! 🙂 LOADS OF LUV HERE ON IMBB .. WE ALL R HERE … ll throw POOP ARND TO MAKE YA FEEL BETTER hehehehehehehehe. . . .
:thanks: :thanks: kams…. nice article
m bookmarking this…..& hv bn tryng all ths…bt aftr a couple f days i go bak 2 my sulking self…its just sooo dificlt 2 control d emotional turmoil :weep: :weep: :weep:
but a gr8 article i will be strong & follow each step…!!!
There is no good break up. They’d always bad. My ex had said “I like u and all buying not sure you r a type of person with who I want to spend my life with” and he made me tell my mom abt us just to be “safe” nut didn’t want to acknowledge me in front of his.:(
For years I cudnt trust even my friends.
I think the most imp. thing after a break up is to have immense faith on God .. what we do most of the time is think that whatever decisions we take for ourselves will change our way but forget about other things around us which can affect our lives, but we see only parts of it. At the end of the day its only God who knows the entire picture of life. Whatever happens happens for the best. 🙂
awsum article i think i needed it.
Nice article.. :))
i knw i ll need dis page soon..nw last night after 1 mnth fight i broke up wid ma bf..nd m feeling devastated nw…wat to do….bt 1 thng i knw z dis z ma decisin ..nd i trust maself wid it..i knw its gud dat we got over..bt still..nt able to face dis failure..dis z d reasn i came to read dis article as a woke up..slept night night at 4 ..was crying all d time… 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥 😥